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Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Happy Birthday JR!!!!

On the 15th JR turned 4 years old. I can't believe how big he is getting.

At 4 years old JR:

Loves to play pretend
Entertains himself quite well most the time
Is very athletic, loves to run
Loves everything construction trucks
Knows his alphabet and all his letter sounds
Knows how to navigate my computer quite well
Loves to play games
Loves playing with his cousins
Has grown so much (he has a dr. appt in a couple of weeks so I will try to post about how much he has grown after that)
Has a wonderful imagination
Is an awesome big brother (just ask AJ)
Is still my sweet boy that loves to cuddle

Can't believe my first baby is really 4 years old. 



Here are some pictures from the celebrations.







Friday, March 18, 2011

Job seeking stuff

Okay, so I know I need to post about JR's b-day.  But I have not downloaded the pictures yet, so that will have to wait for another day.  Instead I thought I would give everyone out there an update on Mike's job seeking.  Now that we live close to family and we see everyone often. I forget there are some people out there, that read the blog, that I might not talk to very much, that may be curious what is happening in our lives.  So if you didn't already know, Mike was able to get on with SLCC in the spring semester as an adjunct professor.  So thankfully we have had a little bit of income.  He is currently teaching 3 classes and we are so very grateful for that, although he of course needs a full-time, permanent job.  He was also told by his old advisor at Westminster college that he can teach adjunct at Westminster starting in the fall if he needs to.  Of course we hope he has a full-time job by then, but if not at least we know he can do that as well.

Mike continues to search job boards and apply for jobs that he qualifies for, unfortunately the jobs listing are sparse this season. It seems to be worse than last season.  He has applied to quite a few, all over the country (I think I posted about this before) and has to date only received one rejection letter.  One school that he applied to is Snow College.  This is a small 2-year college that is located in a tiny, tiny (smaller than Starkville) town in Utah.  About 2 hours a way from SL.  Today he has an interview there, and of course we are hoping that this turns into a job offer.  It would be great to still live in Utah.  However much I might of hoped for a warmer climate (this winter has almost killed me).

We are also trying to sell our house in Mississippi.  We finally had an offer and we thought everything was going well, but then the buyer was unable to secure a loan, so it fell through.  We are also really hoping and praying that our house sells soon as well.  Will try to keep everyone informed on how everything turns out.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Happy 5th Birthday to the twins who were almost mine

It's crazy to think that all happened 5 years ago.  Sometimes if feels like it happened a long time ago, and other times it feels as it was just the other day.  I just hope those kids are happy where ever they are, that they are being taken care of. I really wish some day I could just see them, a picture even and find out their names, but I know that is highly unlikely.  I love my family the exact way it is right now, and it's practically impossible to imagine what it might had been if we had been able to adopt those two sweet babies, but I know it would have been perfect if had been too.  Wouldn't it be cool if . . .  we could live another life and see how things may have been if something worked out differently than it did.  I know, silly right, it just something I think about sometimes.  I still can't think about all that took place 5 years ago and not get emotional about it.  It is without a doubt the hardest trial of my life so far, to have lost those babies.

On the other hand I had an interesting conversation with JR today.  I was watching the news this morning and they were talking about the earthquake and tsunami that happened in Japan.  JR asked me what happened, so I explained to him what had happened in Japan.  He then said, "Why did Heavenly Father do that?" I was amazed that he put that together so quickly with my explanation of an earthquake and a tsunami, but I just did not know how to reply to him.  I told him I didn't know.  I know that trials are an important part of this life, but how do you explain that to a 4 year old.

Tuesday, March 08, 2011

My cute boy

p.s. read his shirt, if you can